Was I ripped off by bride?

One of my very good friends of many years asked me aswell as 3 other girls to be bridesmaids . She purchased the bride maids dresses from a website that does not stock plus sizes ( I am plus ) she just bought me the biggest size they stocked and hoped it would fit . I lost 18 pounds to try and fit into it but it still wouldn’t fit . I had to pay 200€ for alterations and fabric which was more than dress itself cost . I paid 100€ for the fabric and got a call from the bride saying I owed the alterations woman’s other 100€ euro . On top of this we paid for our own shoes bag hotel accommodation considering the fact I was already out of pocket for all this . Should she have paid for the alterations??