Post by strawberry00 on Nov 21, 2021 2:30:56 GMT -5
a few days ago a friend confessed to me and i declined, he continued asking me 2 times more as if he's not listening to anything what i say
even after we had a conversation a while ago about me telling him i could never imagine myself in a relationship because i need to work on myself, he knows my mental health is a terrible terrible mess.
what i say to him was "i want to always be friends/i want to remain friends with you because youre a dear friend" I tought this all was my fault for not being more direct... (am i not being clear to him?)
The third time he asked it was after we had supossedly already had close the topic. "are you sure someday maybe in the future you couldnt feel something for me?" at this point i was so anxious and i repeat him i cant see myself in any relationship bc im a mess i felt so ashamed like i was being forced to talk about the things that makes me feel so poorly and low about myself... things that im ashamed of...
I said everything was fine between us but now i have been ignoring him, am i being dramatic/childish?
I barely have any other experience with friends.. so i dont know if im in the wrong.. i have no one else to tell about this i need help
even after we had a conversation a while ago about me telling him i could never imagine myself in a relationship because i need to work on myself, he knows my mental health is a terrible terrible mess.
what i say to him was "i want to always be friends/i want to remain friends with you because youre a dear friend" I tought this all was my fault for not being more direct... (am i not being clear to him?)
The third time he asked it was after we had supossedly already had close the topic. "are you sure someday maybe in the future you couldnt feel something for me?" at this point i was so anxious and i repeat him i cant see myself in any relationship bc im a mess i felt so ashamed like i was being forced to talk about the things that makes me feel so poorly and low about myself... things that im ashamed of...
I said everything was fine between us but now i have been ignoring him, am i being dramatic/childish?
I barely have any other experience with friends.. so i dont know if im in the wrong.. i have no one else to tell about this i need help
