hatsu
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Post by hatsu on Jun 25, 2021 18:02:51 GMT -5
I wasn't really thinking about my sexuality since, you know, like most of us I was thinking I should be into boys and it was totally normal thing for me. But lately, I became more aware of who I am. Maybe I am overreacting but one day at school I was talking with my female best friend as usually and I suddenly started thinking about kissing her. But then I was like "C'mon, it's not a big deal, most people probably have similar situation". Later, I was thinking about it more and more, even when her t-shirt touched my skin I felt my heart beating faster. Then, I started thinking "how would I feel in a relationship with a girl?". At first I was scared but the more I was thinking about this the more comfortable it felt. "Holy crap, I have a crush on my best friend, and she's a girl too!", "What do I do? What do I do?". These thoughts don't want to get off my mind.
I think I'm bi but I'm so scared of it. How do I tell my parents about it? I was thinking about telling my older sister first but I will only see her in a month and I don't even know how to say it. I just had to let this go off my chest
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Post by Ask Anon on Jun 26, 2021 2:40:43 GMT -5
At the moment, from what you say, you find it scary, and you aren't really sure of yourself.
So don't tell anyone. Once you are confident of yourself and who you are, there'll be plenty of time to worry about who to tell, how to, when to, etc., etc., why subject yourself and - your family - to possible confusion and worry now?
Meanwhile there are plenty of specialist websites for people like yourself who are curious and maybe a little confused. I suggest you check them out.
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Post by hatsu on Jun 26, 2021 10:07:30 GMT -5
Will do, thank you very much
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Post by mustard on Jan 7, 2022 20:54:34 GMT -5
This is a really late reply but I would also like to say that you don't owe anyone anything and you don't need to come out if you don't want to. Good luck with everyhting, hope things are good for you now
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