lei
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Post by lei on Dec 26, 2020 11:37:16 GMT -5
hi I hope I post in the right section. I hope women my age are able to give a little advice. my brother is over this week for the holidays. We are both in our 6o's. I am divorced no kids he is never married no kids we both live alone so we are the only family we got. lockdown has made him depressed hes not working and drinking a lot. I want to make him feel accepted included but something made me feel uncomfortable although unintentional. he wears old worn out sweat shorts around the house and hes fallen asleep on the sofa watching tv. yesterday I came in he was sound asleep and from moving in his sleep his shorts were in a way at the top that i could see hair. I saw nothing more but his hair there. should I say anything and how without making him feel ashamed. I consider that hair as private as the rest but to be clear all that showed was hair and I have no doubt it was unintentional it had to occur as he moved in his sleep on the sofa. ladies is it worth it or just let it go please advise thank you
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Post by Ask Anon on Dec 27, 2020 14:57:45 GMT -5
I am not a woman your age, I'm a man, probably about his age.
So feel free to ignore this!
My feeling is, depressed or not, your house, your rules. I don't think you need to make a drama of it, just say you'd be happier if he'd get properly dressed.
There are issues about his mental state, but you don't give enough detail for specific advice on that.
If he doesn't like to be told, then that's something you need to think about before inviting him over in future.
But still, your house, your rules.
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