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Post by conflicted2020 on Nov 30, 2020 21:14:02 GMT -5
I am very conflicted. My bestfriend’s boyfriend, who happens to be my very close friend, has been doing sketchy things behind her back. He doesn’t know I know. But he’s been asking many people of our friend group to have sex with him. He even asked some people if he could have treesomes with them (him, and two other friends of his gf)! He even has resorted to caress their legs and such in public while he’s with my bestfriend(his girlfriend). What do i dooooooo? Fyi, everyone he’s approached with this is close friends with his girlfriend, wayy before they knew him. Idk what to do. Because i feel like it’s cheating but its not technically cheating. Me telling would cause a hugeee dent un everyones friendship, and it could me to lose everyone in my life right now, including my bestfriend. Should I continue to not say anything about what he’s been doing or whaat?
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Post by Ask Anon on Dec 1, 2020 4:19:24 GMT -5
He sounds like a total loser, and I'm sure, in time she'll come to realise that.
On the evidence so far, if it were me, I'd not say anything. Yet. But neither would I lie to her if she asked anything or seemed to suspect: I would not be party to defending him.
And if she expressed false ideas on his love and loyalty, I'd certainly say a few 'Are You Sure?'s, and I'd certainly review that "my very close friend" thing. None of my friends are total shits. We all get to choose our friends.
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