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Post by Ask Anon on Jun 16, 2020 3:08:24 GMT -5
I feel so guilty about leaving, we do have a home together and I love him so much, I just wish he would be better. We have been through so much! Hes had a shit past and being an older guy I want him to be happy. He told me every relationship he had which wasn't many like 5 they all have cheated on him with hes mates and left. One even faked having hes baby. I feel like hes been through so much and doesnt deserve a heartache. When we casually talk he says things like without you I'm nothing, I would join the military, I would end my life, I would go on a high risk job etc, and its tough because it makes me fear hes future. You are in an abusive relationship with a loser, and you're looking for excuses to stay with him. His treatment of you is disgusting, inhuman, and yet you stay on the off chance of a bit of sex? You have to decide if you want to spend the rest of your life with a loser, or get out and give yourself a chance to find someone who will treat you with respect. Being a doormat is a life choice. It's up to you. |
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Post by Gina99 on Jun 17, 2020 18:48:46 GMT -5
I don’t need to read any further than the first line.
You can’t change him.
Figure out why you are attracted to and stay with this awful person.
Go to counseling or you will continue to choose the same type of guy
Live has nothing to do with anything
Imagine what kind of father he would be
Are you renting your home?
‘He has this motto that if you dont like me leave‘
I agree with him
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Post by sophie61s66 on Nov 29, 2020 7:19:51 GMT -5
Wonderful reply by gina99 and anon,
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