Post by ladystardust on Nov 8, 2018 6:35:18 GMT -5
My best friends mum is being really awful to me. Up untill a couple of months ago I got on fine with my friends mum. My best friend is nearly 20 and I am 22. My friend has recently come out as a lesbian and has confessed she has very strong feelings for me even know she knows I am straight and only intrested in guys. It hasnt changed our friendship at all as we are able to accept each others sexuality.
However since all this happened her mother has been very unpleasent towards to me. She thinks that something is going between us that we are covering up. I think she blames me because I am more than 2 years older than my friend.
My friends mum says the reason she is being like this is nothing to do with her daughter being gay but because of what I was wearing when I stayed over at their house one weekend in August. It was a very hot night and so I wore pale pink night dress with straps, which was in no way indecent and none of my other friends mums would have batted an eye. But she thinks it was inapproiate. She also says the other reason was because the gift I gave her for her birthday was insulting. I got my friends mum a set of luxury soaps that were very expensive and were a top brand and they had a lovely fragerence. I got them for her as she had been saying she liked bath staff, perfume, any thing that smelt nice. So I thought it was a nice gift. But she thinks I was rude and trying to imply she stinks. I have given my other friends mums similar gifts in the past and that has never even crossed their minds and they have always been very pleased. My friend thinks her mother is being a total idiot and says I have done nothing wrong. It also dosnt help because a friend of my friends mum claims she saw me feeling my friend up which us totally false, I dont even know this woman and my friend is very angry that this woman has lied about me. So do you think I crossed the line with the night dress and the soap or do you think my bests friends mum is just being childish?
However since all this happened her mother has been very unpleasent towards to me. She thinks that something is going between us that we are covering up. I think she blames me because I am more than 2 years older than my friend.
My friends mum says the reason she is being like this is nothing to do with her daughter being gay but because of what I was wearing when I stayed over at their house one weekend in August. It was a very hot night and so I wore pale pink night dress with straps, which was in no way indecent and none of my other friends mums would have batted an eye. But she thinks it was inapproiate. She also says the other reason was because the gift I gave her for her birthday was insulting. I got my friends mum a set of luxury soaps that were very expensive and were a top brand and they had a lovely fragerence. I got them for her as she had been saying she liked bath staff, perfume, any thing that smelt nice. So I thought it was a nice gift. But she thinks I was rude and trying to imply she stinks. I have given my other friends mums similar gifts in the past and that has never even crossed their minds and they have always been very pleased. My friend thinks her mother is being a total idiot and says I have done nothing wrong. It also dosnt help because a friend of my friends mum claims she saw me feeling my friend up which us totally false, I dont even know this woman and my friend is very angry that this woman has lied about me. So do you think I crossed the line with the night dress and the soap or do you think my bests friends mum is just being childish?
