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Post by russiantrainwreck on Sept 18, 2017 21:35:14 GMT -5
Hi, I'm 21,female,third year in uni and it's 3am and i can't sleep! my professor basically wants to make me (and my classmate) the... idk how in English but like the link between admin and classmates in our group. We have to do meetings, org stuff but end up doing this prof's job like taking absences and all sorts of stuff like that. My classmate and I did this last year cause he basically made us do it cuz we had good marks and all and we were too naive to accept. I hated it!!!!! I got blamed, some of my classmates turned on me, I was stressed and angry most of the time and my anxiety made it worse ughhhh anyway, he wants to do the same thing and talk us into it but we flat out refused but he's such a prick he kept smiling and saying that he'll change our minds. So what do I do? Keep refusing or just accept? I'm scared that if i refuse he'll try to embarrass me infront of the higher ups or even fail me. Ruining my year and mental state. I could however, pretend that im convinced, do his work but bail on actual responsibilities and just let my classmate do all the work (she actually likes doing that shit but pretends she doesn't lmao)
Wow, sorting your ideas really helps! I'm totally gonna accept then bail xD still, gimme your opinions please.
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Post by Gina99 on Sept 19, 2017 18:46:43 GMT -5
Do not accept. Tell him thanks but you have too many responsibilities right now. If he pressures you, go to the administrators and tell them what you went through last year and how he is pressuring you. You are an adult and this is a good life lesson about looking out for yourself and making good choices. Accepting with a plan to bail is passive-aggressive, and dissing your friend is the act of a 13 year old.
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