Post by JayJay on Apr 5, 2017 11:07:38 GMT -5
Why are girls always trying to be nice rejecting people? And how do they do it?
How can they be so sincerely happy when accepting whatever it is, knowing they will later reject it.
I read on a website:
"One of the best prom date ideas is to just go ahead and ask someone to be your date, even if you don’t know them very well. Psychologists say that you have very good chances of him agreeing to be your date."
Results? ...
Yes sure, it worked today, I was really proud of myself for not showing any shyness (unlike usual) and her saying yes with the greatest and most honest smile I have ever seen her have...
2 hours later I get a text from the girl making sure that we're going as friends not a date. Yet I never saw her smile so hard before when I asked her if she wants to go prom with me "as a date" (which I said clearly).
She even told me later that she doesn't mind me going with someone else as a date, or I can still opt to go as friends with her.
Just out of curiousity, why do girls accept whatever is it, a date, or prom perhaps, and then later reject it?
I understand it's not a nice thing to do, so we all leave it for dealing with later. However this isn't the first time it's happened to me and all the girls I have asked were really sincerely happy when they accepted my date or promposal, and then later reject me hours later over text.
Are girls just so sincere when accepting because they can pull it off so well, and then reject? I'd find it really happy to pull off being sincere when I know I'm going to tell them no later because I don't really find them attractive romantically.
Just curious what people think...
How can they be so sincerely happy when accepting whatever it is, knowing they will later reject it.
I read on a website:
"One of the best prom date ideas is to just go ahead and ask someone to be your date, even if you don’t know them very well. Psychologists say that you have very good chances of him agreeing to be your date."
Results? ...
Yes sure, it worked today, I was really proud of myself for not showing any shyness (unlike usual) and her saying yes with the greatest and most honest smile I have ever seen her have...
2 hours later I get a text from the girl making sure that we're going as friends not a date. Yet I never saw her smile so hard before when I asked her if she wants to go prom with me "as a date" (which I said clearly).
She even told me later that she doesn't mind me going with someone else as a date, or I can still opt to go as friends with her.
Just out of curiousity, why do girls accept whatever is it, a date, or prom perhaps, and then later reject it?
I understand it's not a nice thing to do, so we all leave it for dealing with later. However this isn't the first time it's happened to me and all the girls I have asked were really sincerely happy when they accepted my date or promposal, and then later reject me hours later over text.
Are girls just so sincere when accepting because they can pull it off so well, and then reject? I'd find it really happy to pull off being sincere when I know I'm going to tell them no later because I don't really find them attractive romantically.
Just curious what people think...
