Post by cherryadewhirlpool12 on Jan 25, 2017 17:51:20 GMT -5
Hey so basically, I'm in my first year of uni in the uk and last night a girl off my course asked me if I wanted to go the pub with her and her cousin. Side note, the girl's cousin had split up with her boyfriend the previous day. So there was a bit of flirting going on all round, getting steadily drunk obvs. We all went back to my flat and hung out there for a bit, then were all lay on the bed getting pretty close. Shortly after the girl I know went to the bathroom, and me and her cousin started kissing. Then the girl came back in, and shortly after that, we were kissing...
I can't remember a great deal entirely, but little fragments like her cousin suggesting a threesome came up... I was lay there like how on earth have I managed to get into this situation. Me and the girl carried on kissing, and I actually felt a connection with her as I'd known her a fair bit and was quite attracted to her, and kinda had an idea she was of me as well.
Here's the issue. We had arranged with 3 other friends off our course to move into a house next year, which we haven't found yet so nothing is final. She pulled away 2 or 3 times saying we shouldn't be doing this, as its kind of a given you don't get off with your flatmates, but we then carried on anyway. After a bit she got up and went outside to ring my friend who we're staying with to talk it over with her. But here's the bigger issue... the one I'm now punching myself in the face regularly for...
I got back in bed and just lay by the edge. Her cousin slowly started sliding her way over towards me... and eventually we were cuddling, and she began rubbing her leg up against mine, then her hand went down my trousers and... yeah... shortly after I had my hand under her bra feeling her boobs.
I know I'm a bellend so know it's not necessary to tell me that, but I fully support it if you do anyway.
So then basically she came back in and said they both had to go, she didn't get through to the friend. I had the inkling that this girl did like me back so after a bit I thought I should tell her about what I did with her cousin, so I sent her a message (probs should have called now thinking about it) saying what happened. Apparently she asked her cousin and her cousin said nothing happened between us -_- I tried apologising and saying I did really like her, but she said she just needs some time to think, because her cousin is apparently like her best friend.
I haven't spoken to her properly yet today just over messenger, but it seems a tad awkward now even though I tried acting cool and not making her feel pressured. Is there any chance something could still happen between us, or have I ruined it by getting off with her cousin?
p.s. really never thought I'd end a post with that sentence -_-
I can't remember a great deal entirely, but little fragments like her cousin suggesting a threesome came up... I was lay there like how on earth have I managed to get into this situation. Me and the girl carried on kissing, and I actually felt a connection with her as I'd known her a fair bit and was quite attracted to her, and kinda had an idea she was of me as well.
Here's the issue. We had arranged with 3 other friends off our course to move into a house next year, which we haven't found yet so nothing is final. She pulled away 2 or 3 times saying we shouldn't be doing this, as its kind of a given you don't get off with your flatmates, but we then carried on anyway. After a bit she got up and went outside to ring my friend who we're staying with to talk it over with her. But here's the bigger issue... the one I'm now punching myself in the face regularly for...
I got back in bed and just lay by the edge. Her cousin slowly started sliding her way over towards me... and eventually we were cuddling, and she began rubbing her leg up against mine, then her hand went down my trousers and... yeah... shortly after I had my hand under her bra feeling her boobs.
I know I'm a bellend so know it's not necessary to tell me that, but I fully support it if you do anyway.
So then basically she came back in and said they both had to go, she didn't get through to the friend. I had the inkling that this girl did like me back so after a bit I thought I should tell her about what I did with her cousin, so I sent her a message (probs should have called now thinking about it) saying what happened. Apparently she asked her cousin and her cousin said nothing happened between us -_- I tried apologising and saying I did really like her, but she said she just needs some time to think, because her cousin is apparently like her best friend.
I haven't spoken to her properly yet today just over messenger, but it seems a tad awkward now even though I tried acting cool and not making her feel pressured. Is there any chance something could still happen between us, or have I ruined it by getting off with her cousin?
p.s. really never thought I'd end a post with that sentence -_-
haha good luck everyone with your problems