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Post by lostgirl1204 on Dec 21, 2016 0:32:49 GMT -5
So I think my mom is abusive but i am not really sure. Usually that term is pretty cut and dry, but i feel like this is more complicated So the thing that make me think she might be are: She slammed my leg in a door and it was bruised for a while, she hit me in the head for rinsing dishes with cold water, she threw coffee in my brother's face, took my phone away for calling my dad.she calls me fat, dumb, a lazy b***ch, a dumb deaf monkey, a pregnant cow, etc and whenever I mention any of these thing to my dad he gets all worried, and starts to ask me more, but i have only ever talked about the names. But why i think she might not be ctually abusing me is cause, she doesnt always do all of this, i thought it had to be frequwnt, and usually leaving a mark to count as actual abuse So should i talk to someone?
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Post by Ask Anon on Dec 21, 2016 4:39:01 GMT -5
Yes.
From what you say, it is perfectly cut and dry.
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Post by Gina99 on Dec 22, 2016 22:03:42 GMT -5
The frequency has nothing to do with it. Your mother is abusing you. I know it is hard to stay objective but you need to find a way out. For your protection, your unborn child's and your brother's you should call the police. Does your Dad live with you and if not can you live with your Dad? Please talk to someone! A counselor, another adult you trust, etc
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Post by authorunknown on Dec 23, 2016 17:26:25 GMT -5
Yes, she is abusive. The name calling would be verbal a use to you, and the hitting would be physical abuse. There is no doubt she is abusing you. I recommend fully telling your dad what is happening because he is your father and is probably really worried and scared for you, that may be the reason he left your mom. If you feel uncomfortable with telling your dad call social services or tell a friend. You need to get out Egore she does this way more frequent then you could get hurt a lot and may end up bleeding, scarring, or getting marks if you haven't already. It can get worse. You should stop it from developing into something it shouldn't be.
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