Post by slimmershady on Jul 29, 2016 13:12:08 GMT -5
It's really difficult...I have 2 good/main friends I hang out with, and it's not the problem of making friends (I don't have anxiety or anything) - I just don't have many friends that I can hang out with
It started a few weeks back when my girlfriend started going regularly to McDonald's and stuff like that with 5 or 6 other friends of hers, and I feel like a complete loser. Friend A - I never talk to except from in school, and Friend B I rarely speak to for he's always at home being a couch potato and doing nothing.
I just feel as if I need to get out and get more friends in my school and age group (so no randoms
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It's not the issue of going out either! Me and my friends ALWAYS have time (especially now in the UK Summer Break) but friend A never wants to come out (he's a bit of a dork and just stays introverted inside on his computer and xbox all day everyday - literally.) and Friend B complains "Oh, I have no money", "Oh, it's raining" or "Ah man, I can't be arsed" and some crap!
1) To go out we don't NEED money to spend, yes it's nice when we can, but there's not a NEED of it every time I want to go out
2) We could spend time at mine or his, or go out and do something where we don't mind getting wet
3) He is NEVER arsed to do ANYTHING. I message him always on the off-chance he might reply and he comes back with some petty excuse of "Meh" and "I dunno man"
LONG story short. I feel terrible for many reasons:
Just someone help me out and try make this stuff into sense, because I don't see what I'm doing wrong here and I really need friends that we'll all be in a group and care for each other and just have a laugh rather than (rarely) spend time with 2 crappy introverts who'd rather hack in a naked mod for the latest Lara Croft: Tomb Raider game than get outside and enjoy life outdoors.
P.S: I'm 15 years old going into Year 11, just to clear everything up.
P.P.s: Yes, the girlfriend is real, I barely believe it myself.
It started a few weeks back when my girlfriend started going regularly to McDonald's and stuff like that with 5 or 6 other friends of hers, and I feel like a complete loser. Friend A - I never talk to except from in school, and Friend B I rarely speak to for he's always at home being a couch potato and doing nothing.
I just feel as if I need to get out and get more friends in my school and age group (so no randoms
)It's not the issue of going out either! Me and my friends ALWAYS have time (especially now in the UK Summer Break) but friend A never wants to come out (he's a bit of a dork and just stays introverted inside on his computer and xbox all day everyday - literally.) and Friend B complains "Oh, I have no money", "Oh, it's raining" or "Ah man, I can't be arsed" and some crap!
1) To go out we don't NEED money to spend, yes it's nice when we can, but there's not a NEED of it every time I want to go out
2) We could spend time at mine or his, or go out and do something where we don't mind getting wet
3) He is NEVER arsed to do ANYTHING. I message him always on the off-chance he might reply and he comes back with some petty excuse of "Meh" and "I dunno man"
LONG story short. I feel terrible for many reasons:
- I feel like a loser without any plans or friends to hang out
- I don't want to seem like a clingy piece of s**t idiot when I find myself ONLY talking to my girlfriend in my free time (Not that I mind, but she might begin to)
- I doubt whether we're even friends (Under the circumstances - I mean c'mon. Read that crap /\)
- I really feel like I need more friends (in my school and age group, like I said before) because I'm wasting my time sitting at home doing nothing, I feel like a vegetable and quite frankly such a worthless piece of s**t when my girlfriend goes out with her friends.
Just someone help me out and try make this stuff into sense, because I don't see what I'm doing wrong here and I really need friends that we'll all be in a group and care for each other and just have a laugh rather than (rarely) spend time with 2 crappy introverts who'd rather hack in a naked mod for the latest Lara Croft: Tomb Raider game than get outside and enjoy life outdoors.
P.S: I'm 15 years old going into Year 11, just to clear everything up.
P.P.s: Yes, the girlfriend is real, I barely believe it myself.
