Post by minaonix on Oct 31, 2018 0:40:54 GMT -5
Friend's with benefits.
I started to having sex with a friend which is also a co-worker...we both agreed that it was just sex, but the thing is that out of the no where he started dating without telling me, he told me he went on a date a week later we had sex, when he told me about the date he said that she was making him happy, which it made me very angry... The reason that it made me angry it was because I was not aware and I think to myself that he should of told me that he was seeing other girl just for courtesy and to actually let me know that it might be over. I found out by accident it was official by going through Instagram, then all of the sudden I saw her at work... So he got her in to work at the same place.. He has not come to me and tell me that she is there,and I don't think she knows what happened between us, I have been just acting like I have not notice she is actually there to avoid any comflic at work from her I case she finds out... And when she is not there he comes and talk to me. So what I need advice on is if I should still talk to him? even though it was just sex I think he should of have told me about her before going on a date and about her working there. Another thing I actually comfort him and let him know that I was angry because he did not communicate about her he said sorry but then he brought her to work... So I don't really know what to do...
I started to having sex with a friend which is also a co-worker...we both agreed that it was just sex, but the thing is that out of the no where he started dating without telling me, he told me he went on a date a week later we had sex, when he told me about the date he said that she was making him happy, which it made me very angry... The reason that it made me angry it was because I was not aware and I think to myself that he should of told me that he was seeing other girl just for courtesy and to actually let me know that it might be over. I found out by accident it was official by going through Instagram, then all of the sudden I saw her at work... So he got her in to work at the same place.. He has not come to me and tell me that she is there,and I don't think she knows what happened between us, I have been just acting like I have not notice she is actually there to avoid any comflic at work from her I case she finds out... And when she is not there he comes and talk to me. So what I need advice on is if I should still talk to him? even though it was just sex I think he should of have told me about her before going on a date and about her working there. Another thing I actually comfort him and let him know that I was angry because he did not communicate about her he said sorry but then he brought her to work... So I don't really know what to do...
