Post by youalreadyknow on Oct 12, 2018 20:08:44 GMT -5
I want to make this as concise as possible without leaving out too many details. Basically, my friend and I have been friends for just over a year now, but in that time we got considerably close (I've met her children). In that time, our friendship has been strong: we work together and love working together, we message each other daily etc.
There has been an element of physical attraction in our friendship, but nothing too serious. We've kissed when drunk, and we behave a little flirtatious with each other, but deep down we both know our friendship is just that, a friendship. Long story short, she has stopped talking to me and she won't tell me why. Whenever I bring up the topic, she doesn't respond to my messages and changes the subject to something work related. When we are together, there's no warmth. She's not my friend anymore. It was her birthday recently and I sent her a card, with a nice message inside. She thanked me, but again, it's not the same.
I feel like I have hurt her in some way, but some of me is thinking that maybe she doesn't want us to be friends anymore.. And that I should accept it? However, I know her well. There is people that she actually dislikes, that she speaks to more than me.. And it really hurts. Up until a month ago we were so close.
What do I do??
There has been an element of physical attraction in our friendship, but nothing too serious. We've kissed when drunk, and we behave a little flirtatious with each other, but deep down we both know our friendship is just that, a friendship. Long story short, she has stopped talking to me and she won't tell me why. Whenever I bring up the topic, she doesn't respond to my messages and changes the subject to something work related. When we are together, there's no warmth. She's not my friend anymore. It was her birthday recently and I sent her a card, with a nice message inside. She thanked me, but again, it's not the same.
I feel like I have hurt her in some way, but some of me is thinking that maybe she doesn't want us to be friends anymore.. And that I should accept it? However, I know her well. There is people that she actually dislikes, that she speaks to more than me.. And it really hurts. Up until a month ago we were so close.
What do I do??
