Post by usernamesarehard on Oct 10, 2018 14:25:49 GMT -5
I've Had this friend for a while. (I'll call her W) I'd consider us close but. Things are just getting, Toxic? Idk. We started out as friends in high school. When I moved to a new school. Our friendship was on and off from Years 4-6 of knowing them. And in Years 7-8 knowing them things have just been getting hard for me to handle. And IDK If I'm just an ass or If something is actually wrong? So. I'll do a little timeline to help yall give me Some Advice.
Year 1- Me and W meet. We get Along pretty well and Nothing is really going on.
year 2- We don't talk as much. I move on to other friends for a while.
year 3- W joins a new group of friends. We go our separate ways. Whatever.
year 3 1/2- We talk more this half of the year, And it's also the year a ton of stuff happens. So first let me explain something. (My School Is in a large area surrounded by houses and shops. That you can go to during lunch if you desire. There is also A abandoned house in this area, Broken windows Locked door. But the backyard is very easily accessible.) And Now. 2 months into school. W Forces me to go into it with her. Along with 4 other people I did not like nor agree with. But We went anyways, and at one point. I got W caught for trespassing. W Proceeded to send me a series of threats via text msg. She Also Tried to get me in trouble with a bunch of other people Just for getting her caught. On accident. W Also uses the Fact that they have ADHD to get out of every criticism I throw at them 7- I find out about discord and make a group of friends through it. I also Start drifting away from W. But They end up forcing their way into the group chat. There is nothing I could really do, Bcs I'm Not the group leader. W also grew a lot more clingy toward me.
Year 4- W is growing Increasingly more and more invasive on my life. And I feel as if nothing I do to stop her is going to work. They Constantly Keep Forcing their Way into any private Friendship I gain. ANd now. THey constantly Use THe fact they have ADHD to get rid of any impulse decisions (and consequences) she gains from them. How can I get W to leave my discord group? And Leave me alone?
Or am I just being A possessive jerk?
Year 1- Me and W meet. We get Along pretty well and Nothing is really going on.
year 2- We don't talk as much. I move on to other friends for a while.
year 3- W joins a new group of friends. We go our separate ways. Whatever.
year 3 1/2- We talk more this half of the year, And it's also the year a ton of stuff happens. So first let me explain something. (My School Is in a large area surrounded by houses and shops. That you can go to during lunch if you desire. There is also A abandoned house in this area, Broken windows Locked door. But the backyard is very easily accessible.) And Now. 2 months into school. W Forces me to go into it with her. Along with 4 other people I did not like nor agree with. But We went anyways, and at one point. I got W caught for trespassing. W Proceeded to send me a series of threats via text msg. She Also Tried to get me in trouble with a bunch of other people Just for getting her caught. On accident. W Also uses the Fact that they have ADHD to get out of every criticism I throw at them 7- I find out about discord and make a group of friends through it. I also Start drifting away from W. But They end up forcing their way into the group chat. There is nothing I could really do, Bcs I'm Not the group leader. W also grew a lot more clingy toward me.
Year 4- W is growing Increasingly more and more invasive on my life. And I feel as if nothing I do to stop her is going to work. They Constantly Keep Forcing their Way into any private Friendship I gain. ANd now. THey constantly Use THe fact they have ADHD to get rid of any impulse decisions (and consequences) she gains from them. How can I get W to leave my discord group? And Leave me alone?
Or am I just being A possessive jerk?
