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dexou
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i am shy always stressed for no reason and i have social anxiety

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i don't know what i should do Nov 12, 2021 0:35:56 GMT -5

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Post by dexou on Nov 12, 2021 0:35:56 GMT -5

ok so im in highschool and i met a girl that i love and for now we are friend and i think she also love me and i wanna ask her out but i also don't want to because i don't wanna get rejected and not be her friend

and im also extremelly shy and i have social anxiety so i don't really know if i should

so yeah i would like some advice

(sorry for bad english its not my first language)

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i don't know what i should do Nov 12, 2021 4:11:43 GMT -5

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Post by Ask Anon on Nov 12, 2021 4:11:43 GMT -5

We have all faced similar situations, and there's no easy answer.

The best you can do is think very carefully: is she likely to say yes?

You need to be really honest with yourself. In some ways, it's a test of how well you know her.

And if it's a good friendship, why risk it?

You can still ask her out, as a friend, without all the complications.

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