bobm
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Post by bobm on Feb 20, 2021 19:11:03 GMT -5
This is embarrassing. I used to grope guys after having too much to drink. It has been a few years since, but I know I should address this somehow. I don't know what kind of help to seek. I don't even know who any of the guys I groped were, so even if apologizing were appropriate, it's not an option.
I no longer drink socially, just in case. The thing is, this is exactly the type of thing I would have hated when sober and yet that went out the window after several drinks.
I know this means I'm a bad person. I don't know how or why or anything. Does anybody have any input? What do I do now that I see myself more clearly?
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Post by Ask Anon on Feb 21, 2021 4:49:06 GMT -5
It doesn't mean you are a bad person at all. It means you drank too much, and maybe were lonely or felt you didn't get enough attention, or maybe you were sexually frustrated and couldn't handle it.
Either way, "it's been a few years since", so the problem is in the past, and doesn't really need addressing.
You paid for it at the time by achieving a reputation that I trust you have lived down.
If you have sexual issues - and you know if you do or not - then yes, you should get help. If you have alcohol issues, then stay off the sauce.
But always remember that life goes forward, not back. Go forward with it. Looking back is pain best left behind.
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bobm
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Post by bobm on Feb 23, 2021 2:40:13 GMT -5
Thank you for your response. I guess I will continue to grow. I just feel disgusted and terribly embarrassed over it sometimes, but it's not really that awful a price all things considered.
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