Post by friedpickletwinkle on Nov 3, 2020 23:56:47 GMT -5
Please feel free to tell me that I’m being unreasonable or overly paranoid. I’ve got a girlfriend who seems to relish being the other woman, has no qualms whatsoever about being with married men or men in committed long term relationships. She also has a real love for being a martyr, and letting men treat her terribly.
The other day, she was supposedly having a Halloween party. I show up with my newish boyfriend who I’ve been incredibly hopeful about, and first she answers the door in lingerie. A slutty Halloween costume to the extreme. And she was definitely showcasing assets that she knows I’m terribly insecure about lacking. She knew going into it that there may not be any guests besides myself and my boyfriend. We’re in the Northeast, and it’s cold. Should have said that sooner. Anyways, it’s just the 3 of us for a couple of hours, and she’s essentially in lingerie. She starts weirdly focusing on random little ways that she’s compatible with him in conversation. I am always cold, especially in my boyfriend’s home. I’ve told her about this, just as two girlfriends venting innocuously. She starts telling him how she’s always warm – unprompted. They bond over this for a few minutes. And I had recently told her how much I’m miserable – as he runs hot and keeps his house unreasonably cool. She stayed on this bland topic for way way too long. Little things like this continued, with her seeming to jump at any chance to show him how much they have in common. My boyfriend did wonder if she was having ulterior motives, especially considering nobody else showed up to this so called party. I can’t help but question her motives. Am I being crazy? What do you think?
The other day, she was supposedly having a Halloween party. I show up with my newish boyfriend who I’ve been incredibly hopeful about, and first she answers the door in lingerie. A slutty Halloween costume to the extreme. And she was definitely showcasing assets that she knows I’m terribly insecure about lacking. She knew going into it that there may not be any guests besides myself and my boyfriend. We’re in the Northeast, and it’s cold. Should have said that sooner. Anyways, it’s just the 3 of us for a couple of hours, and she’s essentially in lingerie. She starts weirdly focusing on random little ways that she’s compatible with him in conversation. I am always cold, especially in my boyfriend’s home. I’ve told her about this, just as two girlfriends venting innocuously. She starts telling him how she’s always warm – unprompted. They bond over this for a few minutes. And I had recently told her how much I’m miserable – as he runs hot and keeps his house unreasonably cool. She stayed on this bland topic for way way too long. Little things like this continued, with her seeming to jump at any chance to show him how much they have in common. My boyfriend did wonder if she was having ulterior motives, especially considering nobody else showed up to this so called party. I can’t help but question her motives. Am I being crazy? What do you think?
