Post by jj1987 on Sept 21, 2020 0:43:44 GMT -5
Hey, I don't usually do this but I really need advice and have no one to ask, I'll try to explain the situation as much as possible,
(Just for context In my culture you don't really date or have premarital sex, you have an arranged marriage)
I'm a 19 year old great looking guy and have never even kissed a girl, last week my family went away on vacation, at around 2 in the morning I was up alone so I went down to the lobby at the hotel we were staying at, there was this 24 year old woman playing piano, I went over to her and we started chatting, I started to get a feeling that she was flirting with me but just ignored it, after a while she suggested we go play pool, then the flirting got so bad that I couldn't ignore it so I mentioned it and we started making out and then some stuff went down,the next day she invited me into her room and... Some stuff went down... My brother and friend figured out what happened and started making me feel really weird about it since she's 5 years older than me,then they proceeded to say that I'm going to regret it later on! so I guess what I'm asking is is it wrong of me to have this relationship? Should I pursue it? Should I cut it short? She feels really young and I enjoy being with her but is it wrong? Am I gonna regret it? Help!!😥
(Just for context In my culture you don't really date or have premarital sex, you have an arranged marriage)
I'm a 19 year old great looking guy and have never even kissed a girl, last week my family went away on vacation, at around 2 in the morning I was up alone so I went down to the lobby at the hotel we were staying at, there was this 24 year old woman playing piano, I went over to her and we started chatting, I started to get a feeling that she was flirting with me but just ignored it, after a while she suggested we go play pool, then the flirting got so bad that I couldn't ignore it so I mentioned it and we started making out and then some stuff went down,the next day she invited me into her room and... Some stuff went down... My brother and friend figured out what happened and started making me feel really weird about it since she's 5 years older than me,then they proceeded to say that I'm going to regret it later on! so I guess what I'm asking is is it wrong of me to have this relationship? Should I pursue it? Should I cut it short? She feels really young and I enjoy being with her but is it wrong? Am I gonna regret it? Help!!😥
