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Post by jeffrsonian on May 2, 2020 21:08:33 GMT -5
I have a boyfriend, and he is honestly amazing. Perfect for me, really. Might be stupid of me to think it but I honestly think he’s the one. Recently I think he’s been dropping hints that he loves me. He said it once but it was over a call and I wasn’t entirely sure that I heard him right so I asked him to repeat himself and he said “I didn’t say anything.” I don’t know how to explain the other circumstance but basically I think he referenced being in love during a movie we were watching, but I wasn’t sure so I just kind of dropped it? I don’t know how to take hints. He always makes fun of me because before we dated, I had no idea that he liked me even though he did obvious things, like cuddling with me beneath a waterfall. Okay, yeah, that one makes me sound stupid, I know. But basically, he hasn’t said it, and regardless of whether he does or not, I want to show him that I love him in a manner that is so obvious that it’s the same as saying it. I’m the type of person that needs to receive love verbally- if you don’t come out and say it, I have no idea how you feel. As mentioned before, I can’t take a hint. But he’s the opposite. He likes being shown rather than told, and although my instincts are telling me to write something expressing my love for him, I know that that’s how I receive affection, not how he does.
tl;dr How do I show him I love him with a gesture, rather than something involving words?
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Post by Ask Anon on May 3, 2020 4:57:44 GMT -5
Learn to enjoy what you have. Treat him with goodness and respect and don't obsess over the obvious.
Is it really worth creating tension because you refuse to believe what's in front of your eyes?
Once he has said it (and he will) he'll keep saying it. Why rush him?
This is all about you, but the relationship is all about both of you. Priorities!
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Post by Gina99 on May 3, 2020 10:29:37 GMT -5
How long have you dated and how old are you?
You are probably already showing him your love- affection, being devoted, small and big gestures, planning things you know he likes etc
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