anne
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Post by anne on Mar 30, 2020 16:34:00 GMT -5
So there's this guy in my class named X and we're actually quite close. I don't know if I actually have feelings for him but like I feel kinda jealous when he talks to other girls and I wait for his text but the thing is I don't get butterflies or anything when that happens.. He previously got suspended from college for a few days and I actually ended up missing him so much like I was literally giddy when he came back. The thing is I'm not sure about my feelings but I still wanna tell him. I don't know if I just care very much about him or I like him. But I think that he does not think of me like that and I'm scared that once I tell him I'm gonna lose our friendship and I can't bear that...What do I do?
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Post by Ask Anon on Mar 31, 2020 5:28:32 GMT -5
I'm scared that once I tell him I'm gonna lose our friendship and I can't bear that You'd be crazy to tell him then, wouldn't you? I know there's an almost instinctive need to tell people you care, but you really, really, don't need to. And it can so easily go wrong. Don't do it. At least, not until you know he cares for you too. The best way is to SHOW that you care. Be a friend. Think about what might help him ... talking about why he was suspended? Inviting him for coffee (or whatever)? I don't know. But you do. |
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Post by anne on Apr 5, 2020 14:23:15 GMT -5
Thank you so much and while I know that makes a lot of sense sometimes I just reach the verge of just telling him. Thankfully I haven't yet done that. But I'll try to do what u told me.. Thanks again!!
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