Post by jacquip on Oct 10, 2017 21:36:32 GMT -5
Hi there! I'm new, and am in search of advice. So, I appreciate whatever is offered.
About ten years ago, I had a best friend. Her and I were inseparable. Heck, we even got matching flower tattoos! Anyway, we were in the air force together. After several months she was transferred across the country. A short time later I was discharged. However, we still kept in touch.
While I was on a civilian contract in Afghanistan, she got married (very short relationship). Obviously, i couldn't come to the wedding. That didn't seem to bother her, though. Few months later, after getting home, i take a road trip to see her. We had a great time, i thought. She borrowed some money from me for closing costs on the house she was buying. Anyway, I went home and literally never heard from her again.
For a while I thought maybe she was dead. But after contacting her base, they assured me she was alive. Anyway, for the last ten+ years, I've been looking for her. At first I thought she was embarrassed because she couldn't pay me back (dude, it was only like $500).
Well, just the other day I finally found her on Facebook and sent her a message. The message was simple... "you are the most difficult woman in the world to find... how are you? "
She just responded with "good, how are you?"
Anyway, I'm not really sure what my question here is. I guess I just don't understand how someone who was so important in my life could be so cavalier about disappearing. And what should I say next to her?
About ten years ago, I had a best friend. Her and I were inseparable. Heck, we even got matching flower tattoos! Anyway, we were in the air force together. After several months she was transferred across the country. A short time later I was discharged. However, we still kept in touch.
While I was on a civilian contract in Afghanistan, she got married (very short relationship). Obviously, i couldn't come to the wedding. That didn't seem to bother her, though. Few months later, after getting home, i take a road trip to see her. We had a great time, i thought. She borrowed some money from me for closing costs on the house she was buying. Anyway, I went home and literally never heard from her again.
For a while I thought maybe she was dead. But after contacting her base, they assured me she was alive. Anyway, for the last ten+ years, I've been looking for her. At first I thought she was embarrassed because she couldn't pay me back (dude, it was only like $500).
Well, just the other day I finally found her on Facebook and sent her a message. The message was simple... "you are the most difficult woman in the world to find... how are you? "
She just responded with "good, how are you?"
Anyway, I'm not really sure what my question here is. I guess I just don't understand how someone who was so important in my life could be so cavalier about disappearing. And what should I say next to her?
