Post by nikkichi on Aug 20, 2017 16:49:28 GMT -5
They have been friends for a long time. Long before him and I met. Him and I started off as fwb, and it evolved into a relationship. Her family is like family to him. They slept together before I was in the picture, and he says he regrets it becuz he feels like he disrespected her mom. Her and I started out as friends, he was honest from the start about her. The way her and I met was, he wanted to have a 3 some with the two of us while he and I were still fwb. It never happened. But if he regretted having sex with her before I ever came along, y was he wanting to do it again? So fast forward six years. They are still best friends. Which I was fine with until I found out he went to the beach with her and some of her friends on the Fourth of July and left me sitting at home unaware of what he was doing. He told me he was going to work. Then a tree fell and damaged her roof. She called him to come help her even tho she has a brother and lots of male friends that could help. He lied to me and told me it was his sisters roof. He's on her phone plan. When him and I have problems he texts her and tells her about it and they talk shit about me. I know becuz I finally stooped low enough to become that person and went thru his phone to confirm my suspicions. She now has a bf, but didn't the first 4 years of mine and his 6 years that we have been together. But she still calls him for favors and to fix things. Still bffs. I'm pretty sure her bf doesn't know. I found out about the beach and her roof thru Facebook. I created a fake account became friends with her and found the pictures. Sounds juvenile ik, but my gut wouldn't shut up. Since then I don't trust her at all, and my trust for him is weak. Idk if at any time since we have been in a relationship if he has had sex with her or not. At this point I wouldn't b surprised. I need advice. Should I b Leary of the friendship? Ask him to end it? I jut don't know.
