Post by porcy on Aug 12, 2017 14:28:17 GMT -5
Hello,
I've been talking to this guy for a few days now. I think he got my number from a friend or an ex bf but that doesn't matter. So, after two days of talking. He asked for my pictures which I gave after thinking about it and we continue to talk.
We basically go to the same school but he's in a different course and I never talked to him at school which makes him thinks that I'm avoiding him. I do avoid him when I'm around my friends because this guy has a thing with my friend who has moved into another state. I feel bad for that friend, that's why I avoid him when I'm around my other friends.He also asked my friend to wait for him and she cried about him quite a lot. He also asks for help from her a lot and sometimes I do think he's taking advantage of her. She told me about him and I'm super curious now. He gets jealous whenever my friend is with another guy but he never decided to date her and now he's moving on to me. I have trust issues with guys and if he decided to act like this, I'm marking him as a red flag. If I go out, he'll ask if I'm going out with a guy or a girl.
He asked me out once but I refused because I'm with my friends at the time and I can't just leave them and go with him. It might be just me and my wrong judgement but he seems to want people to know about us. E.g, he called me in public when I was with my friends. He asks to take pictures with me during break time and ask where I was at that time. He brings my ex out for a drink. Like I said, might be just me or what do you think?
So, a few days have passed and he asked about my ex boyfriend. He asked if it's okay for him to come with us to go for a drink. I didn't mind really but why would he asked and how did he know about this ex when I never told him about it. He also told me that his dad wants to meet me. We've known each other for a week, I got nervous and I refused again.
I also didn't go when he asked me to go out for a drink. It's not because of my ex but it's because it was late and I'm a girl. I can't just go out with two guys and I barely know him and he refused to send me home at the same day and instead he'll send me home tomorrow. He said he wouldn't do anything to me but still. When I asked whether or not he drank a lot because he was going to pick me up and he said he didn't but I asked the second time and he said he did. Why would he lie about it? I'm not going to be in a car with a person who's drunk. He's not just endangering his life but mine too. I ended up not going and we're not talking at the time. He's probably mad about it. Oh well.
Oh and I'm just curious about his intention, what is his purpose and what should I do? Should I just stop talking to him or I should've not talk to him in the first place. I don't have feelings for him right now and I don't know when will that fact change. I should take action before everything went to something I regret.
I've been talking to this guy for a few days now. I think he got my number from a friend or an ex bf but that doesn't matter. So, after two days of talking. He asked for my pictures which I gave after thinking about it and we continue to talk.
We basically go to the same school but he's in a different course and I never talked to him at school which makes him thinks that I'm avoiding him. I do avoid him when I'm around my friends because this guy has a thing with my friend who has moved into another state. I feel bad for that friend, that's why I avoid him when I'm around my other friends.He also asked my friend to wait for him and she cried about him quite a lot. He also asks for help from her a lot and sometimes I do think he's taking advantage of her. She told me about him and I'm super curious now. He gets jealous whenever my friend is with another guy but he never decided to date her and now he's moving on to me. I have trust issues with guys and if he decided to act like this, I'm marking him as a red flag. If I go out, he'll ask if I'm going out with a guy or a girl.
He asked me out once but I refused because I'm with my friends at the time and I can't just leave them and go with him. It might be just me and my wrong judgement but he seems to want people to know about us. E.g, he called me in public when I was with my friends. He asks to take pictures with me during break time and ask where I was at that time. He brings my ex out for a drink. Like I said, might be just me or what do you think?
So, a few days have passed and he asked about my ex boyfriend. He asked if it's okay for him to come with us to go for a drink. I didn't mind really but why would he asked and how did he know about this ex when I never told him about it. He also told me that his dad wants to meet me. We've known each other for a week, I got nervous and I refused again.
I also didn't go when he asked me to go out for a drink. It's not because of my ex but it's because it was late and I'm a girl. I can't just go out with two guys and I barely know him and he refused to send me home at the same day and instead he'll send me home tomorrow. He said he wouldn't do anything to me but still. When I asked whether or not he drank a lot because he was going to pick me up and he said he didn't but I asked the second time and he said he did. Why would he lie about it? I'm not going to be in a car with a person who's drunk. He's not just endangering his life but mine too. I ended up not going and we're not talking at the time. He's probably mad about it. Oh well.
Oh and I'm just curious about his intention, what is his purpose and what should I do? Should I just stop talking to him or I should've not talk to him in the first place. I don't have feelings for him right now and I don't know when will that fact change. I should take action before everything went to something I regret.
