Post by coolbean786 on May 1, 2017 20:56:37 GMT -5
Hi-- I am still in HS, but I have an older friend who graduated and is currently in college. We never hung out before, but we would have some interesting conversations in school before he graduated. I thought he was super hot and he knew it, but he was this really introverted kid who was extremely smart but very reserved until the end of senior year when he was more outspoken.
I asked him how he liked college over facebook messenger in the fall and he sent a really long response with all the things he liked. It was really thoughtful. I asked more questions, he asked more questions, and we began a rather lengthy philosophical discussion which I always love-- but it's really hard to find someone else to converse with. Keep in mind that we are not responding to each other right away, but sending paragraphs of thoughtful response every month. I don't really like chatting for a long time via internet but I enjoyed this and his thoughts really excited me. It went on for a while.
Recently, I asked him about spring break and he was actually on it at the time and asked me if I wanted to get lunch and talk irl. We made a plan and went to lunch. I was expecting it to be super awkward but it was actually wonderful. We both had interesting things to say and really listened to each other. I felt so in the moment and present and it's hard for me to feel that way. I know it's cheesy but I got the sense that we have similar souls. I have not met someone like him before. Lunch turned into a walk in the park and a drive and another walk in another park and then we went to his house to watch a movie. I was so attracted to him personality-wise and physically but I didn't really think he thought of me that way because I am younger, I thought he just liked my conversation, lol. But he was trying to get close to me while watching the movie, and holding my hand. We started making out 10 minutes in and we continued to do so for about 3 hours. At least to me it was super hot and even (cringey to say this o well) intimate-- probably because we were sober. He kept calling me beautiful and kissing my neck and complimenting me and stuff
we were cuddling and chatting at the end but then he said "were you expecting this to happen?" I said that no not at all, and asked him if he did. he said "I was [expecting this to happen]".
That kinda freaked me out because maybe he was just talking to me all year and spent the whole day to get in my pants?? I know that's jumping to conclusions but, he is a nineteen-year-old boy. I just don't know if I'm being dumb and thinking there was a connection of some sort when there may have been ulterior motives. But it seemed so genuine, and I'm usually good at telling when guys are full of shit. It's been a few weeks since this and we've snapchatted a little bit..he wants to hang out this summer. i don't want to annoy or distract him and I don't want him to annoy or distract me because I have a lot going on this month in school and I know he does too in college. What do you think he thinks about the whole thing? I honestly can't stop thinking about him and I hate it because I REALLY don't need a distraction, but I can't help it. Do you think he's thinking about me? Was it just a random hookup that he's probably doing more of right now at college? We are both pretty nerdy/studious but we both talked about how we've hooked up with people before and I know there's a big hookup culture at colleges everywhere and like I said he's super hot (but at the same time introverted and not cocky at all).
I can't really talk to my friends about this but I don't know what to think and I so badly don't want to care but I do
Let me know honestly what you think is going on in his POV (if anything). Thanks 
I asked him how he liked college over facebook messenger in the fall and he sent a really long response with all the things he liked. It was really thoughtful. I asked more questions, he asked more questions, and we began a rather lengthy philosophical discussion which I always love-- but it's really hard to find someone else to converse with. Keep in mind that we are not responding to each other right away, but sending paragraphs of thoughtful response every month. I don't really like chatting for a long time via internet but I enjoyed this and his thoughts really excited me. It went on for a while.
Recently, I asked him about spring break and he was actually on it at the time and asked me if I wanted to get lunch and talk irl. We made a plan and went to lunch. I was expecting it to be super awkward but it was actually wonderful. We both had interesting things to say and really listened to each other. I felt so in the moment and present and it's hard for me to feel that way. I know it's cheesy but I got the sense that we have similar souls. I have not met someone like him before. Lunch turned into a walk in the park and a drive and another walk in another park and then we went to his house to watch a movie. I was so attracted to him personality-wise and physically but I didn't really think he thought of me that way because I am younger, I thought he just liked my conversation, lol. But he was trying to get close to me while watching the movie, and holding my hand. We started making out 10 minutes in and we continued to do so for about 3 hours. At least to me it was super hot and even (cringey to say this o well) intimate-- probably because we were sober. He kept calling me beautiful and kissing my neck and complimenting me and stuff
we were cuddling and chatting at the end but then he said "were you expecting this to happen?" I said that no not at all, and asked him if he did. he said "I was [expecting this to happen]".That kinda freaked me out because maybe he was just talking to me all year and spent the whole day to get in my pants?? I know that's jumping to conclusions but, he is a nineteen-year-old boy. I just don't know if I'm being dumb and thinking there was a connection of some sort when there may have been ulterior motives. But it seemed so genuine, and I'm usually good at telling when guys are full of shit. It's been a few weeks since this and we've snapchatted a little bit..he wants to hang out this summer. i don't want to annoy or distract him and I don't want him to annoy or distract me because I have a lot going on this month in school and I know he does too in college. What do you think he thinks about the whole thing? I honestly can't stop thinking about him and I hate it because I REALLY don't need a distraction, but I can't help it. Do you think he's thinking about me? Was it just a random hookup that he's probably doing more of right now at college? We are both pretty nerdy/studious but we both talked about how we've hooked up with people before and I know there's a big hookup culture at colleges everywhere and like I said he's super hot (but at the same time introverted and not cocky at all).
I can't really talk to my friends about this but I don't know what to think and I so badly don't want to care but I do
Let me know honestly what you think is going on in his POV (if anything). Thanks 
