Post by helpmeplease on Nov 8, 2016 16:28:09 GMT -5
Basically I like this guy and I really don't know what to do. I find it really hard to talk to people but over the past few months I met some of the most accepting and friendly people ever. I recently started developing feelings for one of the people in particular. I really don't know what to do because every time I want to tell him I just cant bring myself to do it. I find it so hard to do it. I have reasons why so I thought I would post them here and see if anyone can help me
1) I don't want to ruin our friendship by saying I like him and he doesn't like me back
2) Most of the other people I hang around with really don't like him and there some stuff hes done recently that make them don't like him even more
3) I cant bring myself to do it
There's some stuff that makes me think he likes me back
1) There was a time back about a month ago where he was asking me if he was okay and I told his someone really close to him and he said the guy only does that when hes really into someone and its how he hits on girls.
2) A few weeks ago I was upset about some things and a few days ago he seemed genuinely interested in why
3) He opened up to me about some really personal things going on his life
Am I just over-reacting to this?
I have asked two of my closet friends that don't know him or my other friends at all to see what they think but they don't really give advice. They just say it will be okay and just tell him. They don't seem to understand that I since I was young I have always found it hard to fit in ad talk to people,mostly because I was bullied for four years. I didn't have anyone else to ask so I thought maybe an online help website might be the last place to turn. I could either tell someone close to him or the guy himself. And if I tell the guy himself then I can probably only tell him by text because face-to-face would be impossible for me because I find it so hard.
Please help me!
*Update: Things are going well and iv'e been coming more out of my shell with him. I talked more than I ever have in such a long time which is very weird for me. I had the best day and hung around with him the whole day and talked to most him than anybody else. He did admit to me that he likes a girl but so does his best friend and said that he doesnt want to be in a relationship with here so that was okay. He said that I should talk more and he likes when I talk more so we are are getting closer. Im think i'll wait until were really close before I tell him.
2nd Update
He asked my sister if she thinks I like him so he knows...
1) I don't want to ruin our friendship by saying I like him and he doesn't like me back
2) Most of the other people I hang around with really don't like him and there some stuff hes done recently that make them don't like him even more
3) I cant bring myself to do it
There's some stuff that makes me think he likes me back
1) There was a time back about a month ago where he was asking me if he was okay and I told his someone really close to him and he said the guy only does that when hes really into someone and its how he hits on girls.
2) A few weeks ago I was upset about some things and a few days ago he seemed genuinely interested in why
3) He opened up to me about some really personal things going on his life
Am I just over-reacting to this?
I have asked two of my closet friends that don't know him or my other friends at all to see what they think but they don't really give advice. They just say it will be okay and just tell him. They don't seem to understand that I since I was young I have always found it hard to fit in ad talk to people,mostly because I was bullied for four years. I didn't have anyone else to ask so I thought maybe an online help website might be the last place to turn. I could either tell someone close to him or the guy himself. And if I tell the guy himself then I can probably only tell him by text because face-to-face would be impossible for me because I find it so hard.
Please help me!
*Update: Things are going well and iv'e been coming more out of my shell with him. I talked more than I ever have in such a long time which is very weird for me. I had the best day and hung around with him the whole day and talked to most him than anybody else. He did admit to me that he likes a girl but so does his best friend and said that he doesnt want to be in a relationship with here so that was okay. He said that I should talk more and he likes when I talk more so we are are getting closer. Im think i'll wait until were really close before I tell him.
2nd Update
He asked my sister if she thinks I like him so he knows...
