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Post by mll24242 on Oct 19, 2016 9:21:10 GMT -5
MY DAUGHTER IS 26 WITH 2 CHILDREN AGES 8 And 3. She is obsessed with the 3 year Olds father and lives in a fantasies that he is in love with her. To make things worse he leads her on and plays her for his enjoyment! He is abusive, has other girlfriends, is more serious about my daughters ex best friend who also has 2 children by him the same age as their child togather. He is in prison for breaking my daughters arm, actually contempt of court because that was all they could get him for since mt daughter did not show up to testify against him. He use my daughter for anything she has to offer him, when she has nothing left to give him he will toss her out and dump her. The thing is I worry about my daughter getting seriously hurt by him before that might happen, and if she don't get hurt by him then we see a food chance she will be so distressed over him that she might try and take his life along with my grandchildren life. At one point when she thought she had list him before she attempted suicide. Anyway not to long after that she had pretty much made a statement to me that no one would ever have her kids and the WY she said it made me feel that she would take their life's and hers and his if it came down to it. My daughter is a great manipulater. She has her 8 year old believing she would be put with strangers and never see us again if she says so.ething she isn't suppose to say to others about what's going on in their lifes. HeLP. Any advice would be appreciated. Is there nothing we can do? She trust and manipulates others tbat it is us, not her. And then he thinks he's playing her. Ha, they both in a game of their own. The question is which one is gonna win, in reality they all going to lose, and not good for no one.
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Post by Ask Anon on Oct 19, 2016 16:46:57 GMT -5
I can feel your pain and frustration.
Unfortunately, she is an adult, and is entitled to her fantasies.
Provided she is a good mother to her children, there are no grounds for intervention.
On the plus side, most women is her kind of situation do come to their senses eventually: Let's hope it's sooner rather than later.
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Post by mll24242 on Oct 19, 2016 18:12:46 GMT -5
Like I said me and my family members are worried she's going to get hurt or possibly hurt herself. Grandchildren, and him. I guess all I can do is pray it don't end up that way.
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Post by Ask Anon on Oct 20, 2016 17:15:29 GMT -5
I suspect your fears may be realised; I suspect the best thing you can do is keep the lines of communication open, so that you may be able to offer help when it's needed (and appreciated); that will also enable you to take direct action once there's evidence to support intervention.
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Post by Gina99 on Oct 24, 2016 17:53:50 GMT -5
If you think your grandkids are in danger than call child protective services
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