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Post by bakedpotatoholder on Sept 24, 2016 19:58:59 GMT -5
There's a boy who's kinda obsessed with me and he tells me he loves me and stuff but I have told him over and over that I don't like him that way. Plus, for a while I didn't believe in love or relationships, but lately I've been getting curious. I don't, however, want to try things out with him because I just don't like him that way. He's an amazing person - super sweet, caring, handsome, etc. - but for some reason I just don't like him like that. Should I feel guilty when I like other boys or if I ever do get into some sort of relationship or something of the like with someone else? Thank yoouuu 
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Post by Gina99 on Sept 24, 2016 21:20:56 GMT -5
You don't have to feel anything. And that goes for life in general. I would understand guilt if you lied to him but you have been clear. But don't lead him on by engaging in conversations with him.
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Post by Ask Anon on Sept 25, 2016 4:57:51 GMT -5
This guy doesn't own you. He has no entitlement. You owe him nothing.
You should never feel like you have to apologise for your feelings. And often an unexplained 'gut' feeling is telling you something you need to know (no magic here: you are picking up signs all the time, and sometime your subconscious picks up something you didn't realise you knew: often referred to as 'instinct' or 'woman's intuition', but it's just that good 'ole brain doing its thing).
As you're 20, and he's much the same age, his obsession alone is enough to fly a big red flag. A 20-ish guy saying he loves you, when you aren't even close? Be very aware, and be very careful.
Don't flirt with him. DON'T discuss your feelings or his. Change the subject, and drift away.
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