Post by julia on Sept 22, 2016 7:23:19 GMT -5
Okay. so I'm going to try to make this as simple as possible.
my school is small. 500 people.
There are two main girl groups in my grade.
Background info - through school I've always been friends with everyone, the populars, the nerds, everyone. I just like to be nice and friendly to everyone and avoid drama.
Remember these two groups of girls, they are kind of "ONE" group, because we're all friends, but we sit in different places and usually only hang out (out of school) with our own group.
Girl group 1: 4 girls... 2 of them are nice, and the other 2 can be really misleading and only really care about popularity. (they are the clique)
Girl group 2: 3 girls... One is absolutely amazing, she remembers the smallest things and is so loyal. The other one is incredible too, really nice and sweet and fun but doesn't see the two faced side in people. The last friend i had a massive blow out with, it happened on the 31st of July, and shit was it weird, we were best friends. (Lets identify her with J)
Basically J and i had a bad fight, she completely didn't want anything to do with me and i still don't know what i did, her ex started talking to me and she found out (and when she found out, they were back together), but i didn't talk to him at all (basically my screen was just him saying "hey" 7 times with no response from me). I even showed her my phone with so she could see for herself, but that never seemed to change a thing. She didn't want anything to do with me and i was devastated i ended up hating myself because i thought it was all my fault, and i apologised like i committed a mass murder. Though 3 weeks ago it clicked, and i was angry. very angry. I realised that one of the guys that hang with all of us (group 1 and 2) his name was Jack. He played her, humiliated her, would mock her in front of others deliberately,he would make fun of things she liked and would be so, so, so rude to her. Anyways this guy is kind of "up" there, he is friends with all the older guys and goes to all the parties, blah blah blah. So J still goes to him for attention even though he treated her like a piece of dirt. But yet, her ex best friend a.k.a me, was left with no one because she was done with everything. even everyone else was so confused.
Anyways, the real problem is that i used to sit with group 2, and now i dont, because i really dislike J. and unfortunatley her best friend and other friend sits with her. Group 1 is your classic mean girls, yet 2 of them are mean, and the 2 others aren't but i don't feel like i belong. at all. . basically because of this one person i dont have a group of friends anymore and i practically dont have any friends left. and the 2 nice girls in Group 2 are great but they still follow her and i have no idea why because she is so manipulative.
Help, I'm lost, i dont have a group of friends anymore and i don't even have that one friend that i feel like i belong with.
What can i even do.
my school is small. 500 people.
There are two main girl groups in my grade.
Background info - through school I've always been friends with everyone, the populars, the nerds, everyone. I just like to be nice and friendly to everyone and avoid drama.
Remember these two groups of girls, they are kind of "ONE" group, because we're all friends, but we sit in different places and usually only hang out (out of school) with our own group.
Girl group 1: 4 girls... 2 of them are nice, and the other 2 can be really misleading and only really care about popularity. (they are the clique)
Girl group 2: 3 girls... One is absolutely amazing, she remembers the smallest things and is so loyal. The other one is incredible too, really nice and sweet and fun but doesn't see the two faced side in people. The last friend i had a massive blow out with, it happened on the 31st of July, and shit was it weird, we were best friends. (Lets identify her with J)
Basically J and i had a bad fight, she completely didn't want anything to do with me and i still don't know what i did, her ex started talking to me and she found out (and when she found out, they were back together), but i didn't talk to him at all (basically my screen was just him saying "hey" 7 times with no response from me). I even showed her my phone with so she could see for herself, but that never seemed to change a thing. She didn't want anything to do with me and i was devastated i ended up hating myself because i thought it was all my fault, and i apologised like i committed a mass murder. Though 3 weeks ago it clicked, and i was angry. very angry. I realised that one of the guys that hang with all of us (group 1 and 2) his name was Jack. He played her, humiliated her, would mock her in front of others deliberately,he would make fun of things she liked and would be so, so, so rude to her. Anyways this guy is kind of "up" there, he is friends with all the older guys and goes to all the parties, blah blah blah. So J still goes to him for attention even though he treated her like a piece of dirt. But yet, her ex best friend a.k.a me, was left with no one because she was done with everything. even everyone else was so confused.
Anyways, the real problem is that i used to sit with group 2, and now i dont, because i really dislike J. and unfortunatley her best friend and other friend sits with her. Group 1 is your classic mean girls, yet 2 of them are mean, and the 2 others aren't but i don't feel like i belong. at all. . basically because of this one person i dont have a group of friends anymore and i practically dont have any friends left. and the 2 nice girls in Group 2 are great but they still follow her and i have no idea why because she is so manipulative.
Help, I'm lost, i dont have a group of friends anymore and i don't even have that one friend that i feel like i belong with.
What can i even do.
