Post by cathym on Jul 20, 2016 23:24:02 GMT -5
Hi all,
Because I obviously don't want anyone knowing my identity, I've changed all names.
My situation is this :
A long time ago ( around 24 years ) my husband Robert, who I'm divorced from, left me for a few months,
and hooked up with a woman called Linda. She was in an on/off relationship with her boyfriend, who I'll call Tom.
After a couple of months together, Linda became pregnant, telling my husb Robert that the baby was his, as she had barely
been sleeping with Tom. Robert, who was already expecting his second child with me, promptly washed his hands off her, and the baby, and ended up back with me.
Apparently, Linda then announced her pregnancy and everyone (including Tom ) assumed the baby was Toms.
Robert and I had our baby (a girl ) and 6 months later Linda gave birth to a boy.
That happened 24 years ago, Linda married someone else and had another child with them.
Robert and I divorced, and he moved away.
As far as Tom knows, he is the father of the boy.
A couple of years ago, I looked for Linda on Facebook, just to be a stickybeak..lol
I found her, and FB account of the boy in question.
There is absolutely no doubting that he is the son of Robert, he is the spitting image of him.
I have wondered and pondered for a long time now - Do I tell the boy or anyone that his father
is Robert and not Tom ?
Because I obviously don't want anyone knowing my identity, I've changed all names.
My situation is this :
A long time ago ( around 24 years ) my husband Robert, who I'm divorced from, left me for a few months,
and hooked up with a woman called Linda. She was in an on/off relationship with her boyfriend, who I'll call Tom.
After a couple of months together, Linda became pregnant, telling my husb Robert that the baby was his, as she had barely
been sleeping with Tom. Robert, who was already expecting his second child with me, promptly washed his hands off her, and the baby, and ended up back with me.
Apparently, Linda then announced her pregnancy and everyone (including Tom ) assumed the baby was Toms.
Robert and I had our baby (a girl ) and 6 months later Linda gave birth to a boy.
That happened 24 years ago, Linda married someone else and had another child with them.
Robert and I divorced, and he moved away.
As far as Tom knows, he is the father of the boy.
A couple of years ago, I looked for Linda on Facebook, just to be a stickybeak..lol
I found her, and FB account of the boy in question.
There is absolutely no doubting that he is the son of Robert, he is the spitting image of him.
I have wondered and pondered for a long time now - Do I tell the boy or anyone that his father
is Robert and not Tom ?
