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Post by dontjudgeme on Jun 15, 2016 2:15:55 GMT -5
I do not normally let people get to me, but this lady cut me deeply. In the mist of my wedding announcement on my facebook yesterday, A lady comment and said ALOT of hateful things. She claim my husband could do better,she claim my wedding was just for attention, she claim that I was fat and need to lose weight and she told me that I should be ashamed of what I look like. I mean this lady (Who is on my husband friend list) literally put me down on wedding announcement. I put her in her place, of course, but why do I honestly feel bad for stepping to her level?  Have anyone ever felt bad for taking up for themselve? Am I wrong for feeling like crap? I do not even know what is getting to me more this lady comment or the fact that I responded (badly)! Advice please!!! |
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Post by Ask Anon on Jun 15, 2016 4:13:05 GMT -5
It's not about you - it's about her. Someone who can be that spiteful has problems of their own.
Better to block her, and delete your response. Life's too short!
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Post by Gina99 on Jun 23, 2016 12:50:19 GMT -5
what is the most important is how your husband reacted. Did he defend her? Did he speak with her? Did you and he unfriend her on FB? Is this something that is typical of her and if so why is he friends with her?
Also, ' I put her in her place, of course,'
What do you mean by this? If you did this on social media where others could read it only makes you look bad
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Post by okayups on Jul 24, 2016 23:09:40 GMT -5
That's really sad. A wedding announcement should be a happy thing. She's probably jealous don't sink into her level. You should be really happy right now and the fact that you're upset about it means she won. Don't let her ruin one of the best experiences of your life with her bitterness.
If you really want to get back at her. Instead of replying just enjoy life. Enjoy your wedding. Enjoy your announcement and enjoy the excitement from other people and try to not focus on her.
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Post by okayups on Jul 24, 2016 23:15:14 GMT -5
If you feel bad. Apologize. This may sound absolutely dumb but it will show who is the bigger person. It will show strength of who's the bigger person. She wanted a response from you and she got one. Don't let her have that satisfaction. You can stick up for yourself when someone is picking on you and degrading you but what she has is probably fueled by jealousy and you feeding into her is EXACTLY what she wanted. She wanted a response. She said those things to rise a response out of you. Since it's jealous the best thing to do is show strength and be happy. If you decide to apologize it will show that you're the bigger person and you have the power and you're not even phased by her in the slightest. She'll absolutely hate that.
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Have anyone ever felt bad for taking up for themselve? Am I wrong for feeling like crap? I do not even know what is getting to me more this lady comment or the fact that I responded (badly)! Advice please!!!
